Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Local Celebrity Ambush Interview with bernie bitok-bitok

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Why do some people live in a false reality?
-Perception is not the same as reality. For me, reality is what is happening at this moment and what is truthfully recorded as history. I believe that many people rationalize events in their respective lives in an attempt to be OK with things in their life. This is not reality but more of a justification for their actions, in my opinion. I guess it's kind of like a person that steals a candy bar believing that the action hurts no person and trying to justify the action by stating that the owner has money and will never miss the candy bar. Or, the single mother who believes it is the State, Country, or charities responsibility to help provide for the child she cannot provide food, clothing and other essentials. I doubt that she could ever be convinced that the child is her responsibility and if she could not afford to care for the child she should not have gotten pregnant. In my opinion, this is a false reality.
WHY does poor people stay poor and Rich stays rich and even become richer?
-Poor people stay poor, even become poorer ---- because they are already contented with their status. Riches dont give them a chance (lalo pa silang ibinababa) than to help them. "di na tayo yumaman, tang na kasing gobyerno yan eh".
Rich stays rich and even become richer ---- because rich nga eh. They have connections. They have the MONEY. They have the poors below them. Mautak. Mapera. Mabango. Maimpluwensya.
Parang ganto yan eh. Ayon sa nakikita ko sa tv:story 1. Batumbakal Family is poor. They live in the slums. Children have nothing to eat. Father steals. Nahuli. Cops arrest him. Magpipyansa si Misis. Ubos na kayamanan, wala pa laman tiyan. Namatay baby. Pamburol.Ubos pera, ubos lahi.
story 2.A couple loves each other. Gurl rich, Boy poor. Parents stop the relationship. Gurl pakamatay. Madir sisi si boy. Boy sa kulungan. Tatakas. Mapapatay. Maiiwan pamilya. ayun lalong naghirap.
story 3.agni voted [insert politician here].Just like the others, corrupted. Pangakong napako. agni naghirap pa lalo. Mayor happily drinking mineral water in his airconditioned office.

Why do some people live in a false reality?
-Perception is not the same as reality. For me, reality is what is happening at this moment and what is truthfully recorded as history. I believe that many people rationalize events in their respective lives in an attempt to be OK with things in their life. This is not reality but more of a justification for their actions, in my opinion. I guess it's kind of like a person that steals a candy bar believing that the action hurts no person and trying to justify the action by stating that the owner has money and will never miss the candy bar. Or, the single mother who believes it is the State, Country, or charities responsibility to help provide for the child she cannot provide food, clothing and other essentials. I doubt that she could ever be convinced that the child is her responsibility and if she could not afford to care for the child she should not have gotten pregnant. In my opinion, this is a false reality.

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Reaction about sex-ed in schools should be restricted

Sex-education in schools should not be restricted, i think department of education secretary Fe Hidalgo was right , when she wrote the article "information and services should be made available to adolescents to help them understand their sexuality and protect them from unwanted pregnacies, sexualy transmitted infection and subsequent of infertility"..
Because nowadays, my generation today is really exposed in sexual activity, the technology we had right now, porn sites flooded on the net, and mostly at my age or teenage is really curious about this stuuff, " what's with sex?" "what's the pleasure making sex?" and if this curiosity will rise up or getting more intense this may cause unwanted pregnancies, ear;y parenthood, having transmitted disease. it is really good when sex-ed should not b restricted in schools, it helps to teenage, youngters to understand or to know whats the possible risk may they take or encounter if they were "PABAYA" and help them to attain a level of maturity required to make them responsible decisions. Dr. Angelita aguirre of human life international, has also a point when she says "it claims foster value and repsonsibility yet it implies that srxual activity outside of marriage life may be acceptable as long as it does not result to "unwanted pregnancies" but it does not said here its good you have sexual activity outside marriage life, its about a matter of educating the teenage students aout sex and what should be done in the next consequences.

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

reaction paper: Story of Rose

As i finished the story of rose, i'd come to realize that nothing is imposible to a willing heart. like Rose she have faith with God, she have faith that she could reach her dreams, like dreaming that she could enter college life at her age. Nothing is too late, if your heart is really wiiling, you keep what you dreaming of and of course if you have faith with God. I know it's kind a hard, all critics were there, all the allegations were there but, I admire this kind of people, like Rose, she didn't mind what would others say regarding to her age, her self-cnonfident is really great, that could gain a lot of friends and mostly is her faith with God.

reaction paper: Leo Buscaglia

According to what I have deciphered from what I‘ve watched, the speaker was right when he stressed out that love is a broad matter. Love can be good when you know how to tame it and use to your own itineraries. On the other hand, it can do you harm and sometimes can be dangerous enough if you let it take over the steering wheel of your life. For example, married couples need to exercise their expression or profession of love to teach other keeps the relationship alive causing them to stay each other. Of course, we all know it’s a vital factor, therefore, the positive cause of love. While on younger generations. Like teenagers they get themselves tied up with infatuation which spells out for fake love and believe in themselves that it’s true love. And so, they give in to temptations and eventually give their selves too which equals to early pregnancies and parenthood that result in ruined lives. Hence, it depicts the negative side of love.
Basically love doesn’t just concentrates on couples, being in love with other or simply being attracted to opposite sex. It roots to loving other people with a brotherly love. In this matter, Jesus was actually right when he said to love others as we love ourselves. And whosoever says that loves him but who doesn’t love his brother is a hypocrite. Well, I think that all of us are being hilted bull’s eye about this statement. We always say that we love God and we are for God but when it comes to other people, our brothers, we are full of conceit, criticism and discrimination. Just like the example, the speaker gave; that their was a man who says he loves his brother because he cares for him, but when he called out to his brother, he shouted out to him like he didn’t cared at all. It’s like calling out to a waiter and you say curses unto him because you still hadn’t had your order after 20minutes since you ordered. It’s alright to call out to the waiter but to say curses at him doesn’t give or project any love. That’s where we begin to be hypocrites. Again love is not only for affection but love itself is patient.
Love is a gift that we should dominate and not us being dominated by it. It’s free element which anyone can have and give. Since God loves us even though we aren’t perfect, we should, in return love our fellow men that aren’t perfect as we are.